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 In this article, we will try to explain the book "The Love Hypothesis" by Dr. David Schnarch. The book is about how we can fall in love with someone and stay in love with them for life.

The Love Hypothesis: A Scientific Validation of Infatuation by David Schnarch is a book that looks at the way we fall in love and stay in love with our partner.

Dr. Schnarch found that there are three stages of love: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust is when we feel attracted to someone and want to get close to them. Attraction is when we think about how much we like someone or how great they are compared to other people. Attachment is when you are committed to spending time with your partner and being romantically involved with them.

In his research, Dr. Schnarch found that 80% of couples who were married for more than five years had trouble maintaining their marriage because they stopped feeling lustful towards each other - meaning that couples stop finding each other attractive enough! This made him wonder if there was something wrong with his theory when he thought about it deep down inside himself.

यस लेखमा, हामी डा. डेभिड स्नार्कको पुस्तक "द लभ हाइपोथेसिस" को व्याख्या गर्ने प्रयास गर्नेछौं। पुस्तक हामी कसैसँग कसरी प्रेममा पर्न सक्छौं र जीवनभर उहाँसँग प्रेममा रहन सक्छौं भन्ने बारेमा छ।द लभ हाइपोथेसिस: डेभिड स्नार्चद्वारा इन्फ्याच्युएशनको वैज्ञानिक मान्यता एउटा पुस्तक हो जसले हामी कसरी प्रेममा फस्छौं र हाम्रो पार्टनरसँग प्रेममा रहन्छौं भनेर देखाउँछ।

डा. स्नार्कले प्रेमका तीन चरणहरू छन्: वासना, आकर्षण र आसक्ति। लालसा भनेको जब हामी कसैप्रति आकर्षित हुन्छौं र उहाँसँग नजिक हुन चाहन्छौं। आकर्षण भनेको हामी कसैलाई कत्तिको मनपर्छ वा अरू मानिसहरूको तुलनामा उहाँ कत्तिको महान हुनुहुन्छ भनेर सोच्नु हो। अनुलग्नक तब हुन्छ जब तपाईं आफ्नो पार्टनरसँग समय बिताउन र उनीहरूसँग रोमान्टिक रूपमा संलग्न हुन प्रतिबद्ध हुनुहुन्छ।

आफ्नो अनुसन्धानमा, डा. स्नार्चले पत्ता लगाए कि पाँच वर्षभन्दा बढी विवाह गरेका ८०% दम्पतीहरूले आफ्नो वैवाहिक सम्बन्ध कायम राख्न समस्या भोगेका थिए किनभने उनीहरूले एकअर्काप्रति कामुक महसुस गर्न छोडेका थिए - जसको अर्थ जोडीहरूले एकअर्कालाई पर्याप्त आकर्षक खोज्न छोड्छन्! यसले उसलाई आश्चर्यचकित बनायो कि उसको सिद्धान्तमा केहि गलत थियो कि जब उसले यसको बारेमा आफै भित्र गहिरो सोच्यो।